Common Sex Toys for All Genders & How to Use Them: Pleasure for Everyone!

Welcome to the wonderful world of sex toys—a universe full of buzzes, pulses, and everything in between! No matter your gender, orientation, or personal flavor of freakiness, there’s something out there to tickle your fancy (literally). At Pleasher Vibes, we’re on a mission to create a space where women—and people of all genders—can explore their sexual pleasure confidently. And let’s be honest: when it comes to toys, the more, the merrier!

Ready to dive into some playful, body-safe options and learn how to use them like a pro? Let’s break it down.

1. Vibrators: The Great Equalizers of Pleasure

Vibrators are the OGs of sex toys, and they come in all shapes and sizes. From bullet vibes to wand massagers, these pleasure tools are versatile enough for all genders. And here’s a medical fact: vibration helps increase blood flow to erogenous zones, making sensations more intense and orgasms more likely.

• For Vulvas: Clitoral vibrators are perfect for external stimulation and can even be used during penetrative sex to amplify the experience. G-spot vibes are great for internal use, with curved designs that target the elusive pleasure zone.
• For Penises: Vibrating cock rings are a hit. They enhance erections by restricting blood flow (more on that later) and add a pleasant buzz for both partners. You can also try placing a small bullet vibrator at the base of the shaft for extra sensation.
• For All Bodies: Wand massagers are perfect for full-body stimulation and work wonders on necks, backs, and thighs, too. They can bring pleasurable sensations to nipples, perineums, and wherever else you fancy.

How to Use Them: Start on the lowest setting and slowly work your way up. You can place the vibrator on your chosen area, or use it in combination with penetrative play. And, of course, don’t forget to add some Simply Lube—vibrations and lubrication are a match made in pleasure heaven!

2. Dildos: The Classic Choice for Penetration

Dildos come in every size, shape, and material you can imagine. They’re body-safe, versatile, and can be used anally or vaginally, solo or with a partner. Some even have suction cups for hands-free fun. (Shower wall, meet your new best friend.)

• For Vaginas & Anuses: Dildos with a curved shape can target the G-spot or P-spot (that’s the prostate, for those in the know). Remember to use plenty of lube for comfort, especially for anal play.
• For Strap-Ons: Dildos are also the go-to toy for strap-on play. Use a harness to penetrate your partner (or let them penetrate you) and explore new dynamics in the bedroom.

How to Use Them: Warm up with your hands or a vibrator first, then introduce the dildo when you’re feeling relaxed. Use a gentle, rhythmic motion and listen to your body—or your partner’s. And, a friendly reminder: always use a dildo with a flared base for anal play to keep things safe!

3. Anal Toys: Pleasure for All Back Doors

Anal pleasure is for everyone. Seriously, the anus is packed with nerve endings, making it highly sensitive to stimulation. From beginner-friendly butt plugs to more advanced prostate massagers, there’s something for every comfort level.

• Butt Plugs: These come in various sizes and shapes, and many are designed to be worn during other types of sex or solo play. Start small and work your way up as you get used to the sensation.
• Prostate Massagers: These are designed to stimulate the prostate gland (sometimes called the “P-spot”) and can result in intense orgasms. They often have curved, ergonomic shapes for easy access.
• Anal Beads: A fun option for exploring anal pleasure, these beads are inserted one by one and pulled out during climax for a unique experience.

How to Use Them: Lube, lube, and more lube! Apply plenty to both the toy and yourself. Start slow and relax your muscles as you insert the toy. Butt plugs can be worn during penetrative sex, while prostate massagers can be moved or left stationary. Listen to your body and go at your own pace.

4. Cock Rings: For Longer, Stronger Erections

Cock rings are designed to go around the base of the penis (or base and testicles) to restrict blood flow. This helps maintain a firmer, longer-lasting erection and can make orgasms feel more intense.

• Vibrating Cock Rings: These add extra stimulation for both partners, especially during penetrative sex. The vibrating section can be positioned to stimulate the clitoris or perineum.
• Adjustable Cock Rings: Great for beginners, these rings can be tightened or loosened for comfort.

How to Use Them: Place the ring around the base of the penis (or base and testicles) when you’re semi-erect, and make sure it feels snug but not too tight. Use lube to help slide it on, and don’t wear it for more than 20-30 minutes at a time.

5. Strokers and Masturbation Sleeves: Next-Level Solo Play

These toys are designed for people with penises and come in a variety of textures and designs to heighten sensation. Strokers can be simple sleeves or more complex gadgets with suction and vibration.

How to Use Them: Apply a generous amount of water-based lube inside the sleeve. Slide it over the penis and move it up and down, experimenting with different speeds and grips. Some strokers even have built-in vibrators for an added thrill.

6. Harnesses and Strap-Ons: Power Play for All Genders

Harnesses are used to attach to a dildo for penetrative play, and they’re not limited to any one gender. Strap-ons can be used for vaginal, anal, or pegging play, allowing partners to switch up traditional roles and explore power dynamics.

How to Use Them: Choose a comfortable, adjustable harness and a compatible dildo. Make sure everything is securely in place, and use plenty of lube. Communicate with your partner about what feels good, and take your time finding a rhythm that works for both of you.

7. Sensation Play Toys: Light, Fun, and Teasing

Feather ticklers, blindfolds, and handcuffs fall into this category, making them perfect for exploring sensation play and light BDSM. They’re great for building anticipation and heightening other sensations.

How to Use Them: Use a blindfold to take away your partner’s sense of sight, heightening their other senses. Feather ticklers and massage oils can be used to tease and tantalize the skin. Always establish consent and boundaries before exploring kinkier play.

Ready to Explore? Let’s Go Shopping!

No matter your gender, there’s a whole world of toys designed to make your sexual experiences more pleasurable, exciting, and fun. And the best part? At Pleasher Vibes, we’ve got a collection of eco-friendly, body-safe toys just waiting to make your nights (or mornings) a whole lot steamier. Check us out at PleasherVibes.com to find your perfect match!

Remember: exploring sex toys is all about discovering what feels good to you and your partner(s). So, keep it playful, communicate openly, and get ready to experience pleasure in all its glorious forms. Happy playing, and may your vibes always be good!